Relationship No No's:Critical 6

Relationship No No’s: Critical 6

Rushing into relationship:

-People tend to do this a lot and that’s why relationships don’t last. Take the time to let the relationship grow. No way n hell could you get in a relationship after “Dating” for only 1wk and then 2 days later you’re in love. It just doesn’t work that way. The times of letting things develop and grow seem to be gone. Get to know the person. Learn the likes and dislikes of your partner. Just take your time.

Looking thru your spouse belongs:

-This is something that is done by a person who doesn’t trust their spouse, insecure or is looking for trouble. This is setting yourself up for disappointment. Why go looking for the negative? When you look for bad you find bad. When your mind is set on the negative, the smallest thing could be blown out of proportion. Whether it’s a text or a call, and please don’t let it be a FaceBook msg. Lol You should trust your spouse if you’re going to be with them. And whatever is done in the dark will come to the light.

Going to the club wit spouse:

-This is a “No No” that many couples commit. This is never been smart in my eyes because you’re inviting trouble. No one wants to see their girl/man grind up on another person. All that I don’t care if my man or woman dance with another person is a “Lie”. That’s not the only factor though? Jealous could set in. People being disrespectful. Your spouse acting crazy. The list goes on. So be smart and don’t even put yourself in that position. Go to a lounge or something.

No such thing as having a Female/Male best friend:

-There is no such thing is a best friend of the opposite sex while you’re in a relationship. You could have a guy/girl friend who you share things with every once in awhile. The line is real thin. A best friend is someone you talk to almost on a daily basis. I don’t think your spouse would like you talking to another person of the opposite sex on the phone no more than 2 times a week. And 75% of males who claim to be best friends have thoughts of one day being with that person or having sex with that person.

Over Protective/Clingy:

-This is just downright annoying. Let your partner breath. Let them step out and venture off at times. Yeah it’s good to know where your spouse is but damn you don’t have to know there every single move throughout their day. You don’t have to be around your spouse all day every day. Married couples aren’t around each other all day. Give yourself time to miss the one you love.

Taking a Break:

-This is something I never understood. People tend to use this when they want their cake and it too. Why take a break when things get a little shaky in the relationship. Most people who tend “take breaks” in a relationships ends up losing the person who they are “taking a break” with. If you’re going to take a break with your partner to do your own thing, you should just end the relationship and hope that person will take you back one day.