10DIMESACK:Top 10 Random Relationship No No's

Top 10 Random Relationship No No’s.

I could name over a 1000 things you

shouldn’t do in life but here is 10 things you shouldn’t do in a relationship. Read, Enjoy and Comment

10. Never use the phrase “when we get married”.

-This is a commonly used phrase amongst young couples in there early stages. Saying this early in a relationship can tend to give a false notion to your partner and making them feel as you want to be with them for the rest of your life(you only been dating 1month). Let the relationship grow; if it’s meant for you and your partner to marry then it will happen.

9. Too much PDA (Public Display of Affection)

-Too much PDA(Public Display of Affection) can be overwhelming and very annoying. A simple kiss on the lips and a few whispers of sweet nothing will not grab the attention of on lookers. But when you and your partner engage in a romantic but lengthy kiss with tongue swapping and very passionate hugging in the middle of Best Buy….then it becomes a problem.

8. Begging

-Never BEG. It’s something we learned at an earlier age in our life but fail to apply when we grow up. Begging gives your partner the upper hand. Once they know you want something so bad that you’re begging for something a couple things can happen. 1. You get very annoying 2. You lose control of the relationship 3. You get more annoying.

7. Wearing a t-shirt during Sex

-When man and woman first had sex do you think that the both of them still had their shirts on? No!!!!!!But someone thought it was a genius idea to put a shirt on during sex. Now if you’re in a rush and “u gotta do wut you gotta do” then it’s cool but…..When you and your partner has nothing but time. Plz take your shirt off. What are you hiding? Maybe you think your partner doesn’t like your body? Maybe you don’t like your body? Whatever it is get over it and take your shirt off and get NAKED.

6. Asking to many Questions

-People who tend to ask too many question becomes very annoying, very quick. Learn how to ask question without asking question. Spark up a convo that will enable your partner to give you more information and tell you things without you even asking a question. You don’t want your partner to think your top interrogator.

5. Doing Things to Get a Reaction

-This is a big NO NO. Doing things to get a reaction is something that’s mostly done by women when they want to find out something. Men do it also. This can back fire though. When the partner doesn’t give the reaction that was expected of them, then there go your problem.

4. Facebook Status

-This is something that annoys many. Most people like to publicize their relationship problem on facebook. This is bad for a couple of reason; the 1st is that when you put your relation problems up on facebook, you just let another 1,000 people into your relationship. 2nd Its very unattractive. 3rd It makes you look STUPID. Nobody really cares about your relationship that much so only tell the people who care.

3. Stubborn

-A relationship is a situation where two people have to put their pride to the side. Being stubborn only make situations more difficult, some things you have to comprise on. It also shows your partner that you’re willing to put there needs and feelings before you.

2. Lying About DUMB Stuff

-Now we all know that lying is bad but we all do it. It becomes a bigger problem when you lie about the DUMBEST things. Lying about DUMB things is the quickest way to lose the trust of your partner. When you lie about something major, the other partner subconsciously know and understand why you lied but when your partner have no clue for the reason why you lied then that’s bad and sad.

1. Never Live In a Fantasy

-Never live in a Fantasy is self explanatory. Know that in your relationship there is going to be problems, people are born to make mistakes. Whether you think they should make them or not doesn’t mean anything because they are still going to happen. When you put yourself in a fantasy land where everything is perfect, the first time someone makes a mistake which could be the smallest thing it quickly turns into the biggest problem in the world. Be real with yourself and your partner.