Relationship No No’s: You wonder why you’re SingleThis is has been a topic that has been troubling women and men for now a lengthy period of time. So NASAGANG sit down, thought, ponder and came up with some answer to why YOU are still single…:::Get Lifted:::…
Standards too HIGH:
-This is something that hinders many females but also have its impact on men as well. The standards that many females have for men are unrealistic. Some females live in a fantasy world where every dude that comes across has to be able to take care of them right from the start. No longer is relationship based on pure love for the person but now what can you do for me. Males tend to try to go after females that are “Out of the League” and this is typical done by someone who is living a lie, trying to be someone other than themselves. It’s not lowering your standards it’s just being realistic…:::Get Lifted:::…..
Bitterness
-This is the backbone of why most people are single. Bitterness is something that has plagued man and woman for a very long time. Why be bitter just because someone done wrong. What happen to the saying “live and learn”? It is the loudest and the person who stands out the most who is found to be bitter on the inside. Always having something negative to say about any situation when it comes to relationships, and never give good advice to anyone. Misery loves Company. Maybe if you stop feeling sorry for yourself and spending all your energy being bitter, you may can go out and get someone…:::Get Lifted:::…..
“Men Aint Shit”
-This is a saying that keeps 70% of females single. Females spew this saying so much that they really believe all aint shit. They believe it so much that they cannot even recognize a good man if one came right up to them and that’s usually what happens. Women who feel this way can’t understand why they can’t find a good man. Is it because in your mind ALL men are some shit? I hate to say it but maybe you aint shit. Get off ya HIGH HORSE…:::Get Lifted:::…
Lazy/Sorry ass Men
-It really is a sad sight to see a lazy ass man. Man is supposed to be the backbone of civilization, the provider, the one who over sees the family. Today some men are not taking care of the business. Not providing or let alone making something of themselves. No progress. Stuck in time. But always want to be amongst the finest of woman and stay dressed in the best of linen. Why would you want to live ya life like that? SMH Make something of yourself or be nothing…:::Get Lifted:::….
Living a lie
-A lot people suffer from the condition. It can be quite amusing to see or be entertained by someone who lives a lie. Trying to spend money they don’t have. Trying to wears clothes that they can’t afford. Telling tales of how you’re making money or how you’re balling. It would be the perfect life only if you really lived it. People try there hardest to fit in and only if they would just be themselves, life would be a lot of easier for. And real recognize real so if you step to someone living a lie in due time they will find out. Stop playin with yaself…:::Get Lifted:::….
I agree with most of this but except "standards too high"---> I think people (men & women)have what you call high standards but and stick by them because they know what they deserve & refuse to settle for less. This may come across as that persons standards being too high because of the amount of people they turn down but if thats the way the cookie crumbles! All in all "high standards" are not a bad thing :-)
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